by Kerry Marsala
august 17, 2004
The whole Scott Peterson trial is revolting and disgusting within itself. How anyone could come across anymore obdurately or detached from their spouses' death and that of their own child is enough to make one vomit vehemently. For me, what finally was the last straw of this mockery of justice was when amber Frey began her testimony. Listening to her and those who are in support of her has me saying--enough with this empty-headed woman named, amber Frey.
Ms. Frey, who is now giving her testimony; If I were you, I would be embarrassed over my inexcusable, nymphomaniac lifestyle. all I feel for people like Ms. Frey is absolute disgust. Who in their right mind goes out on a blind date to a bar and then a of couple hour's later winds up in bed making it with someone they've just known for all of two hours? Evidently, people like Peterson and Frey do. Where is the self-respect? What happened to sensible, intelligent decision-making skills?
We have a woman, who has just met a guy on a blind date. after a little dinner and a little dancing they go and have a little sex in the hotel room. Not only is this completely brainless for anyone woman, single or single with a child (Ms. Frey has a little girl she's supposed to be raising responsibly), but did she ever consider the guy she's having sex with could possibly by the guy who is a pathological liar and may have murdered his wife and son? Where are her brains? Why the lack of self worth Ms. Frey? Do people flippantly go around having sex with strangers? (Isn't sex with strangers, just like prostitution? Ms. Frey was just paying her dinner bill wasn’t she?) Was there no thought given to the possibility that she might have ended up alone with a mass murderer in a hotel room? How many unthinking people have received their "fifteen minutes of fame," on the next day's newscast--murdered due to a similar situation? They were no longer in one piece…part of them was in the dumpster, part buried in a shallow grave, part never found--THINK about it!
Ms. Frey stated she felt that the relationship with Peterson, all within a few days, was moving from just sex, to something more serious… What happened to developing a relationship based on getting to know each other first--before we play horizontal mambo? Evidently for a certain percentage of people out there, they begin with sex first and then perhaps decide to develop it into something a bit deeper. How does this make humans any different from animals?
The horrible judgments of people like Ms. Frey only progresses. after her second date with Scott Peterson, she gives Peterson a car seat, the keys to her house, and asks him to pick up her daughter at day care.
Okay, let's analyze this and see if we can make any of this sound like someone who is capable of making good judgments.
We have a single parent who meets a guy she's never known before on a blind date. They eat; dance and a couple of hours later have sex. They go on a second date, approximately a couple of weeks later. On the second date the guy, who appears to be a knight in shinning armor, carries the single mom's 22-month-old daughter while they go on a hike. Somewhere during this time the guy says something to the effect that he would raise the child as "his own." Well, who wouldn't get warm fuzzes over such a statement? Surely anyone could see in such a brief period of time that this meant more than just sex and could make a sound judgment for themselves and a defenseless little child. (?) Obviously any person who has been in the physical presence of another (maybe 10-12 hours) and they state a desire to raise your child as their own, would prompt anyone to give that total stranger a car seat and the keys to their house-- where you live--by yourself--with a young child. after all, if you feel an immediate trust for your young daughter to be alone with a complete stranger--this must justify it all.
are you following the stupidity of this mother? Where are child protective services? Would anyone who is a good parent, and in their right mind give "alone" time with their child to a complete stranger, let alone the keys to their house?
Ms. Frey is far from being a struggling, poor victim here. She's a person who repeatedly lacks the ability to think. The use of hormones to guide one's self from relationship to relationship is deadly. People want to believe what they want to believe. Sure Peterson is a liar, and a good one, but I'll never cry for amber Frey--she needs to develop self-esteem and a brain. Not only for her own self-preservation, but for that of her child.
For the love of God, she's a single mother who's having sex with men she doesn’t even know and thinking that the storybook fantasy of Cinderella or Snow White really exists. Honey, it doesn’t and it's time to wake up from dreamland! Keep your legs closed and build a relationship based on getting to know the other person first, and I mean getting to know their personality, likes and dislikes-- character…it speaks volumes. Ms. Frey you owe it to yourself, to other mindless singles out in the world, but most of all--you owe it to the child you've created and decided to be responsible for--Grow up!
The pity party ain't happening, Ms. Frey. We haven't any reason to cry for you--you're an adult…the only shedding of tears I'll be doing is for your child if you don't get your life together.
(Kerry L. Marsala writes for www.americonservative.com, www.azconservative.org Opinion Editorials; assistant Editor of the GOPUSa/arizona; Independent Newspapers and is a regular contributor to Sarah's Seed Woman's Journal; Focus Magazine and The Truth Magazine. During the 80s Ms. Marsala worked as a freelance photojournalist for The Rock Revue and Newsreel Magazine. Writing about cultural, social and political ideologies by using a bit of satire every now and again helps keep her grey cells stirring. Her philosophy remains that no matter the event, you can always find a bit of humor or the human element of hope somewhere amongst the cracks.)
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