Of all the left-wing attacks on George W. Bush, the one that used to frost me the most was the one about his drinking and driving - not because it wasn't true, but because Bush himself had owned up to it and gone to great lengths to become a better man after it happened.
People who have issues to address in their lives, and do so, do not need jerks coming along and throwing their past wrongdoing back in their faces. People who do that are toxic and can have no part in your life. They're just flat out mean, nasty, destructive a-holes.