This can be analogized to physicality. We know man can manifest a multitude of physical abnormalities; e.g., spina bifida, cleft palate, heart defects, microcephaly, cystic fibrosis. We recognize that they are in fact abnormalities and undesirable states of being, however, and correct or at least mitigate them when possible. Why, someone I know well was born with one foot turned inwards 90 degrees. But his physician father, understanding the malleability of babies' bones, gradually corrected the problem by taping the foot appropriately. Should he have left it as it was because the kid was "born that way"?
The point is, again, that something's status as inborn has no bearing whatsoever on whether it's good from a human-health standpoint or, in behaviors' case, its morality. As to the latter, the lesson here could be said to be that genetics doesn't determine morality; however, espousing the born-that-way argument is, in fact, to act as if morality doesn't even exist and replace it with
biological determinism. And, once more, this principle could justify anything — as long as it's considered innate.
Some may now say, referencing pedophilia and the homicidal instincts example, "But, wait, they're not like ‘transgenderism.' Those things are wrong!" Congratulations. By citing their "wrongness," you're instinctively recognizing the Truth: Morality exists and is above those supposedly biologically induced feelings (and corresponding behaviors) — for if it can be used as a yardstick with which to judge them, it is above them.
This said, even the Bible alludes to genetically influenced misdeeds; e.g., "The sins of the father will be visited upon the child." There's no question people are born with different characteristic weaknesses and temptation tendencies; one person may have a greater urge to drink heavily while another may be more inclined toward lust. This doesn't mean they should give their darker urges free rein, however, but that they should cultivate the virtue (good moral habits) that can preclude their acting upon them.
If anyone still disagrees, note that many scientists
now say we're born "racist." So if "born that way"=behavior a-okay, it must be bigoted to pejoratively call someone racist. Just pass out the white KKK hoods and New Black Panther party berets, and shut the heck up.