One takes the same route day after day but never notices the full picture. He walks, runs, takes the bus or drives and is able to provide a very detailed description of the route. But there are holes in the picture, those things which are obvious but which he has not noticed before. If only he tried the other side of the street or the reverse course, he would find extraordinary things staring at him. Once noticed, they become newly acquired friends, their presence obvious from time immemorial.
This process of discovery can enrich our lives. Look around, and you will see beautiful things, people who have little and give enormously. By their sacrifices, by doing good, they make the world a better place. They light their surroundings, blessing anyone with whom they come in contact.
I like to collect such miracles – ordinary people doing extraordinary deeds – savoring them, using them as a support mechanism, like a cane, a walker or a breathing machine. This collection is the source of inspiration when the world becomes difficult, when challenges seem insurmountable, at a time when I need something tangible to which to turn for encouragement.
To truly earn this respect, one must do something for which there is no immediate payment, in whatever form, and which does not come easily, effortlessly. One must give from within, not because it is expected or because the person derives pleasure or further power, but because it is a calling, a direction he must follow.
I know people who literally put their lives on hold and dedicate themselves to doing something in which they believe. One speaks for Israel, another disseminates information, yet a third makes connections so that people will find strength in numbers. One person collects foods and personal articles and distributes them to needy families, another guides a group of women every week, yet a third goes to help at a shelter. The missions vary, the passions consume. Means are limited but the results are impressive.
People do good things because they are driven. They expect nothing in return thus they receive so much more – the smile of a person who otherwise is unable to do what for them is a simple task, the gratitude in one’s voice or look, when no words are necessary. Against all odds, this is a collection of individuals exactly like you and me who are taking an extra step to do something for others, for a greater cause, for a future generation.
I am reminded of a story of an old man planting an olive tree. When asked why he was doing so, given that he will not be able to enjoy the fruits, he replied: When I was born, there was such a tree, fully grown, bearing fruit. I am planting this tree to welcome someone else into this world. We often act for the pleasures or the needs of the moment, focused on “us” first. It is a true blessing to be able to do good deeds for others, be they complete strangers or future generations.
Look for your own examples then look at yourself. Our missions on this earth are varied, but our presence must be remembered for the extra steps we have taken, as small or as large as they may be. Go through the exercise of finding your own sources of inspiration from your everyday life. Your discoveries will bring a smile to your face and a warm, confident feeling from within.
Ordinary People doing Extraordinary Deeds: All you need to do is look around and you will find them – part of your everyday life.
